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Module 1
Low-Level System Performance: CPU & Memory
Module 2
Low-Level System Performance: I/O & Network
Module 3
Foundations of Distributed Systems
Module 4
Fault Tolerance and System Resilience
Module 5
Asynchronous Architectures & Messaging
Module 6
Large-Scale Data Storage & Processing
Module 8
Observability: Monitoring & Alerting
Module 9
Production Excellence & Incident Response
Module 10
Advanced System Design & De-risking
Module 11
Strategic Technical Leadership & Communication
Module 12