¡Hola! Welcome back to our final module. In our last lesson, you mastered one of the most useful questions for interacting with your son: ¿Qué estás haciendo?. You also learned how to answer for yourself with Estoy..., like Estoy jugando (I am playing).
Today, we'll expand on that so you can become the narrator of your family's daily life. You'll learn how to describe what other people are doing at this very moment. This will allow you to say things like "Your dad is cooking" or "He is drawing," which is fantastic for connecting with your son about the world around you.
By the end of this lesson, you will be able to describe ongoing actions for different people, using phrases like estoy leyendo (I am reading) and papá está cocinando (dad is cooking).
1. Beyond "I am": Using estar for Everyone
In the last lesson, you used estoy to talk about yourself. The verb estar (to be) is the key, and it changes depending on who you're talking about. This is the only new grammar piece you need today!
Let's look at the most common forms you'll use:
| Who is doing the action? | The estar form |
Pronunciation | Example (reading) |
|---|---|---|---|
| I am | estoy |
ess-TOY | Estoy leyendo. |
| You are (familiar) | estás |
ess-TAHS | Estás leyendo. |
| He / She / It is | está |
ess-TAH | Él/Ella está leyendo. |
| We are | estamos |
ess-TAH-mohs | Estamos leyendo. |
| They are | están |
ess-TAHN | Ellos/Ellas están leyendo. |
Note: In Spanish, you can often leave out the pronoun (like yo, él, nosotros) if it's clear who you mean. So, Está cocinando is a perfectly natural way to say "He is cooking."
This image provides a great visual summary of how estar combines with an action word.

2. Building the Action Word: A Quick Review
Remember how we form the action word (the "gerund")? The rule is simple and doesn't change, no matter who is doing the action.
- For verbs ending in -ar (like
caminar), drop the-arand add -ando.caminar->caminando(walking)jugar->jugando(playing)cocinar->cocinando(cooking)
- For verbs ending in -er or -ir (like
comer), drop the ending and add -iendo.comer->comiendo(eating)correr->corriendo(running)escribir->escribiendo(writing)
3. Putting It All Together in a Conversation
Now, let's combine the estar forms with these action words. This is where you can start narrating life at home.
Imagine you see your son playing with his toys. You could say to him:
Tú **estás construyendo** una torre.(You are building a tower.)
If your partner is in the kitchen, you can point it out to your son:
Papá **está cocinando**.(Dad is cooking.)
If you are both reading books together:
Nosotros **estamos leyendo**.(We are reading.)
To solidify this, let's watch a short video that explains this structure clearly.
How to express what's happening right now in Spanish
The instructor from Butterfly Spanish will walk you through how to use the verb 'estar' and why it's the right choice for actions in progress. She'll list all the forms we just discussed.
Watch from 01:49 to 05:04. Pay close attention as she lists the conjugations of 'estar' (yo estoy, tú estás, él está, etc.) and explains that you use it for temporary actions happening now.
This next resource provides some simple, complete sentences that are perfect for practice.
Present Continuous Tense in Spanish
Let's look at the webpage 'Present Continuous Tense in Spanish' from A Green Mouse. It has a great list of examples for different people.
Read the short section that begins right after '– – – –' and ends just before the online quiz. Notice the examples like 'Estás nadando' (You are swimming), 'Está durmiendo' (He/She is sleeping), 'Estamos saltando' (We are jumping), and 'Están descansando' (They are resting).
Test your understanding!
Imagine your son is running in the park. How would you describe what he is doing?
a) Estoy corriendo.
b) Él está corriendo.
c) Estamos corriendo.
Show answer
The correct answer is b) Él está corriendo. (He is running.)
4. A Key Tip: Present vs. Future
In English, we often use the "-ing" form to talk about the near future, like "I am going to the park tomorrow." In Spanish, you cannot do this. The estar + -ando/-iendo form is only for actions happening right now.
This is a very common point of confusion for English speakers, so learning it now will save you a lot of trouble.
How to express what's happening right now in Spanish
Let's watch one more clip from the Butterfly Spanish video. The instructor gives a perfect example of this common mistake and explains how to say it correctly.
Watch from 17:08 to 19:56. The key takeaway is her advice: do not use 'estoy tocando mañana' (I am playing tomorrow). This structure is only for actions happening now.
So, if you want to talk about tomorrow, you would use other phrases, some of which we've already learned, like Vamos a jugar mañana (We are going to play tomorrow).
Conclusion
¡Excelente! You've made a huge leap today. By learning to change estar for different people, you've unlocked the ability to describe the world in real-time. This is a powerful tool for engaging with your son and making Spanish a part of your daily life.
Key Takeaways:
- To describe what others are doing, you change the verb
estar:está= he/she isestamos= we areestán= they are
- The action word (
-ando/-iendo) stays the same for everyone. - You can now build sentences like
Ella está leyendo(She is reading) andEstamos comiendo(We are eating). - Remember, this tense is only for actions happening right now, not for the future.
Preview of the Next Lesson:
Now that you can ask ¿Qué estás haciendo? and describe what's happening (Él está jugando), the next logical step is to ask why. In our next lesson, you'll learn how to ask ¿Por qué? (Why?) and understand simple answers using porque... (because...). This will add another layer of depth to your conversations.
¡Nos vemos en la próxima lección