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In our last lesson, we mastered the passé composé with avoir, which you'll remember is used for the majority of French verbs. We learned the formula: Subject + avoir + Past Participle.
Today, we move on to the second part of this essential past tense. Your learning outcome is to identify verbs that use être as the auxiliary and form the passé composé with them. This smaller group of verbs is very common in daily conversation, especially for describing movement and changes of state. Mastering them is a crucial step towards speaking French fluently and accurately, which will be vital in your future role.
1. The Être Verbs: Who Are They?
While most verbs use avoir, a specific list of about 16 verbs (plus their derivatives) uses être. These verbs often describe movement from one place to another or a change in state.
There are two main categories of verbs that use être:
- A specific list of movement/state verbs.
- All reflexive verbs (like
se lever,s'appeler).
We will focus on the first category today. The video below introduces this concept and provides a common mnemonic (a memory aid) to help you remember these verbs.
How to build the PASSÉ COMPOSÉ with ÊTRE // French conjugation course // Lesson 22
Let's start with the video 'How to build the PASSÉ COMPOSÉ with ÊTRE' by The perfect French with Dylane. It introduces a famous mnemonic to remember these verbs and lists them with their past participles.
Watch from the beginning (00:28) to 03:21. Pay close attention to the 'Dr. and Mrs. P. VANDERTRAMPP' mnemonic and the list of verbs it represents. Don't worry about memorizing them all at once; focus on recognizing the pattern.
The "DR. & MRS. VANDERTRAMP" Mnemonic
As you saw in the video, this phrase is a popular tool where each letter stands for a verb that uses être.
Here is the list for your reference.
The Dr. And Mrs. Vandertramp Verbs for Using “Avoir” or “ ...
This webpage, 'Dr. Mrs. Vandertramp as a Mnemonic Device', provides a clear, written list of the verbs from the mnemonic. Having this text as a reference is very helpful.
Review the table under the heading 'Dr. Mrs. Vandertramp as a Mnemonic Device'. Compare the verbs to the ones you heard in the video.
An Alternative: "La Maison d'Être" (The House of Être)
For many learners, a visual story is more effective than an acronym. The "House of Être" mnemonic connects most of these verbs to actions happening in and around a house.

This approach helps you associate the verbs with a concrete image and a logical sequence of actions:
- Arriver (to arrive), Venir (to come)
- Entrer (to enter), Monter (to go up)
- Tomber (to fall), Rester (to stay)
- Descendre (to go down), Sortir (to go out)
- Partir (to leave), Aller (to go)
- Plus the "life" verbs: Naître (to be born) and Mourir (to die).
2. The Golden Rule of Être: Agreement
Now for the most important part of forming the passé composé with être. Unlike with avoir, when you use être as the auxiliary, the past participle must agree in gender and number with the subject. It behaves just like an adjective.
The structure is:
Subject + être (present tense) + Past Participle (with agreement)
Let's see this rule in action.
How to build the PASSÉ COMPOSÉ with ÊTRE // French conjugation course // Lesson 22
The same video from Dylane explains this agreement rule perfectly. This is the most critical part of the lesson.
Watch carefully from 03:21 to 07:06. Dylane explains the concept of agreement and then shows a full conjugation with examples for masculine, feminine, and plural subjects.
Here is a summary of the agreement rules:
- Masculine Singular: Default form (e.g.,
allé) - Feminine Singular: Add -e (e.g.,
allé**e**) - Masculine Plural: Add -s (e.g.,
allé**s**) - Feminine Plural: Add -es (e.g.,
allé**es**)
Let's look at the full conjugation of aller (to go) to see this clearly.
| Subject | passé composé of aller |
Translation |
|---|---|---|
je (m) |
Je suis allé |
I went |
je (f) |
Je suis allé**e** |
I went |
tu (m) |
Tu es allé |
You went |
tu (f) |
Tu es allé**e** |
You went |
il |
Il est allé |
He went |
elle |
Elle est allé**e** |
She went |
nous (m/mixed) |
Nous sommes allé**s** |
We went |
nous (f) |
Nous sommes allé**es** |
We went |
vous (m/mixed) |
Vous êtes allé**s** / allé (formal m) |
You went |
vous (f/plural) |
Vous êtes allé**es** / allé**e** (formal f) |
You went |
ils |
Ils sont allé**s** |
They went (masculine/mixed) |
elles |
Elles sont allé**es** |
They went (feminine) |
Test your understanding!
Complete the following sentences with the correct form of the verb in parentheses. Pay close attention to the subject!
- Marie
____________(partir) en vacances. - Les garçons
____________(tomber). - Nous (a group of women)
____________(arriver) à l'heure. - Mon frère
____________(naître) en 1990.
Show answer
- Marie est partie en vacances. (
partir->parti+efor feminine singular) - Les garçons sont tombés. (
tomber->tombé+sfor masculine plural) - Nous sommes arrivées. (
arriver->arrivé+esfor feminine plural) - Mon frère est né en 1990. (
naîtrehas an irregular past participlené, no agreement needed for masculine singular)
3. An Important Exception: When Être Verbs Use Avoir
To build a truly strong foundation, you need to know about one major exception. Some of the être verbs can switch and use avoir when they are followed by a direct object (when the verb is acting on something).
When this happens, the meaning of the verb often changes slightly, and there is no agreement with the subject (the regular avoir rule applies).
The Dr. And Mrs. Vandertramp Verbs for Using “Avoir” or “ ...
The Fluentu article 'Exceptions to the Vandertramp Rule' explains this concept very clearly with examples. This will help you avoid a very common point of confusion.
Read the section 'Exceptions to the Vandertramp Rule'. Focus on the examples for 'sortir', 'monter', and 'descendre' to see how the meaning changes when the auxiliary verb switches from 'être' to 'avoir'.
Let's look at the most common examples:
-
monter(to go up)Je **suis** monté.(I went up.) - No direct object. The action is about me.J'**ai** monté **la valise**.(I brought the suitcase up.) - The action is on the suitcase (direct object).
-
sortir(to go out)Elle **est** sortie.(She went out.) - No direct object. The action is about her.Elle **a** sorti **le chien**.(She took the dog out.) - The action is on the dog (direct object).
This is a subtle but important distinction. For now, focus on recognizing it. With practice, it will become natural.
Conclusion
Great job! You have now covered all the fundamentals of the passé composé. This is a significant milestone.
Key Takeaways:
- A specific list of about 16 verbs, mostly related to movement and state changes, uses
êtreas the auxiliary verb. - Mnemonics like "Dr. & Mrs. Vandertramp" or the "Maison d'Être" can help you remember them.
- The most important rule: When using
être, the past participle must agree in gender and number with the subject (e.g.,elle est allée,ils sont partis). - Some of these verbs switch to
avoirwhen they have a direct object, which changes their meaning slightly.
In our next lesson, we will continue to practice this topic. You'll apply the agreement rules in more exercises and scenarios to make sure the concept is solid, especially as it also applies to reflexive verbs, which we will study soon.
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