Bonjour !
In our last lesson, we identified the group of verbs that use être in the passé composé and got a first look at the most important rule associated with them: agreement. You learned that, unlike with avoir, the past participle must change to match the subject.
Today, we will solidify that knowledge. Your learning outcome is to apply past participle agreement rules with the subject when using être. We will go through the rules in detail, see them in action with many examples, and then extend the concept to another very important category of verbs. Mastering this will make your spoken and written French much more accurate—a key skill for professional communication.
1. The Golden Rule of Agreement with être
Let's start by formalizing the rule we introduced last time. When a verb is conjugated in the passé composé with the auxiliary être, its past participle acts like an adjective and must agree in gender (masculine/feminine) and number (singular/plural) with the subject of the sentence.
This webpage provides a very clear explanation and a helpful summary table.
Past participle agreement with être verbs - Grammar
Please read the following sections from the Kwiziq grammar page 'Past participle agreement with être verbs'. It lays out the rule and the different endings very clearly.
Read the sections starting with 'Learn how to agree the past participle...' down to the table that shows the endings. Pay close attention to the examples provided for singular and plural subjects.
As you've just read, the endings for the past participle are adjusted as follows:
| Subject's Gender & Number | Past Participle Ending | Example (aller) |
|---|---|---|
Masculine Singular (il) |
(no change) | Il est allé |
Feminine Singular (elle) |
-e | Elle est allé**e** |
Masculine Plural (ils) |
-s | Ils sont allé**s** |
Feminine Plural (elles) |
-es | Elles sont allé**es** |
This infographic provides a great visual summary of the entire passé composé, but I want you to focus on the être side.

2. Seeing Agreement in Action
Now let's see and hear how this works in practice. The video we watched in the last lesson has an excellent section where the instructor conjugates a verb fully, explaining the agreement for each subject pronoun.
How to build the PASSÉ COMPOSÉ with ÊTRE // French conjugation course // Lesson 22
Let's re-watch a part of the video 'How to build the PASSÉ COMPOSÉ with ÊTRE' by The perfect French with Dylane. This time, focus entirely on how the spelling and pronunciation of the past participle change (or don't change) with the subject.
Watch from 03:21 to 07:44. Listen carefully to the examples for devenir and aller. Notice how the agreement is sometimes only visible in writing, as the -e and -s are often silent.
Special Cases: nous and vous
As you saw in the video and the Kwiziq article, you have to be careful with nous and vous.
nous(we): Can be a group of men, a mixed group (masculine plural–s), or a group of women (feminine plural–es).Nous (Marc et moi) sommes arrivé**s**.Nous (Marie et moi) sommes arrivé**es**.
vous(you): This is especially important for your goal of working in customer service.- If you are speaking to one person formally (e.g., a client):
Monsieur, vous êtes né en quelle année ?(formal, to a man)Madame, vous êtes arrivé**e** à quelle heure ?(formal, to a woman)
- If you are speaking to a group of people:
Vous êtes parti**s** trop tôt.(to a group of men/mixed)Vous êtes entré**es** par la mauvaise porte.(to a group of women)
- If you are speaking to one person formally (e.g., a client):
Test your understanding!
Choose the correct form of the past participle.
- Mes sœurs sont
(sorti / sortie / sortis / sorties). - Le train est
(parti / partie / partis / parties)à 8h00. - Bonjour Madame, vous êtes bien
(connecté / connectée / connectés / connectées)? - Paul et moi (I am a man), nous sommes
(resté / restée / restés / restées)à la maison.
Show answer
- sorties (The subject
Mes sœursis feminine plural). - parti (The subject
Le trainis masculine singular). - connectée (The subject
vousrefers toMadame, who is feminine singular). - restés (The subject
nousrefers toPaul et moi, a masculine plural group).
3. A Huge Category: Agreement with Pronominal Verbs
The agreement rule doesn't just apply to the "Dr. Mrs. Vandertramp" verbs. It also applies to all pronominal verbs (also called reflexive verbs). These are verbs that have se or s' before them in the infinitive, like se lever (to get up), se laver (to wash oneself), or s'appeler (to be called).
The great news is that the rule is the same: Pronominal verbs ALWAYS use être in the passé composé, and the past participle ALWAYS agrees with the subject.
The video below gives a fantastic explanation.
⚠️ Le passé composé des verbes pronominaux + l’accord du participe passé
Let's watch this video by Guillaume from 'Guillaume Posé - Professeur de français'. He explains how to form the passé composé with these verbs and how the agreement rule works.
Watch from the beginning to 07:10. Focus on two things: 1) the structure (subject + reflexive pronoun + être + past participle) and 2) the examples showing agreement with subjects like 'je', 'elle', 'nous', and 'elles'. You can ignore the more complex rules discussed after this point for now.
Let's break down the structure for a verb like se lever (to get up):
| Subject | Passé Composé of se lever |
Translation |
|---|---|---|
je (m/f) |
Je me suis lev**é** / lev**ée** |
I got up |
tu (m/f) |
Tu t'es lev**é** / lev**ée** |
You got up |
il |
Il s'est lev**é** |
He got up |
elle |
Elle s'est lev**ée** |
She got up |
nous (m/f) |
Nous nous sommes lev**és** / lev**ées** |
We got up |
vous (m/f) |
Vous vous êtes lev**é(s)** / lev**ée(s)** |
You got up |
ils |
Ils se sont lev**és** |
They got up |
elles |
Elles se sont lev**ées** |
They got up |
This is a very common structure in French for talking about daily routines. For example: Hier, je me suis levé à 7h, et ensuite je me suis préparé pour le travail. (Yesterday, I got up at 7am, and then I got ready for work.)
Conclusion
Excellent work today! You have now mastered one of the most important (and sometimes tricky) rules of French grammar. Getting this right is a sign of a truly solid foundation.
Key Takeaways:
- When using the auxiliary
êtrein thepassé composé, the past participle must agree in gender and number with the subject. - The agreement endings are: -e for feminine singular, -s for masculine plural, and -es for feminine plural.
- This rule applies to the "verbs of movement/state" (the Vandertramp list) and to all pronominal verbs (like
se lever,s'habiller). - Pay special attention to
vousto ensure you are being polite and grammatically correct in a professional setting.
In our next lesson, we will put all this together. You will practice constructing sentences to describe completed actions in the past, using both avoir and être verbs and answering questions about past activities.
À bientôt